Trust me with the story that I am weaving through your life. It's called History for a reason.
Had I known the answers would I still have regrets? Would I have drove myself insane trying to make those last days just the way you would have wanted? I tried to make the right choices. I wanted so bad to get an appointment with the specialist to find out exactly how bad your liver was. I wanted an answer. I wanted a time limit. None of which anyone could give me. With Joy of finally having an appointment I didn't fathom that this appointment would be the beginning of the end.
As we took you home that night and you were later admitted into the hospital I fought all sorts of emotions. What did this mean? Was this it? Were we going to have to experience the same symptoms that we did with mom? Could I handle this? Was I strong enough?
That week, sitting by your bedside, spending all the time I could with you, I added so much more to my memory bank. I remember you opening your eyes to see Ginny. Your smile was so big it was as if the child inside you remerged. "Hello My Ginny!!" you said. On one of my stops in to check on you I noticed the nurses had the t.v on with some stupid show that would have irritated you. I quickly grabbed the remote and changed the station to 100 Huntly street. Once again you turned your head, opened your eyes and said "I like that show. They play nice music." It was hard to see the man that was so strong, so clean, so proper, become so dependant.
I will forever cherish the last time that I shaved you. I am glad that Peter encouraged my idea and told me that if I wanted to I should. There are no words for how grateful I am that I was able to sit by your bed and hold your hand the entire night before you simply could fight no more. Time was too short. Time was so precious. I am forever thankful for the time that I was given.
My heart aches to now have you both gone but to know that you and mom are together again makes the ache less painful. We all have ideas of what may be going on in heaven. Ginny thinks that while mom is sitting on a bench in a beautiful garden, watching the birds and drinking tea, you are building a house for us to live in when we join you. Malakai thinks that you are sailing on a ship. I think after all the work that you have done here on earth you are getting the much deserved rest that you need and that you are sitting arm in arm, watching the birds with mom.